[size=78%]I know what you mean ferfer313, but i also agree with shadow that we are not gonna stop you.
TO: PCB
Dear PCB,
Lately PCB has been slacking in being friendly, before every time I would get on, everyone would say hi and make you feel welcome, but now not that many people do that, I’ve notice trusted do that more than others. And you may think why does it make a difference when you say hi. The reason is the person that gets on feels welcome and part of a community. I probably will get hate replies but read this again with an open mind.
BTW I left PCB for a month because of this reason and no one noticed .
We have over 1000 registered players on the server and more than that on the forums, you can’t always expect everyone to notice everything.
It is sad to see people leave the server, but people don’t hate you as you think. You too are part of the problem if you are not proactively trying to be nice to others. That in turn will make others nice to you, and that whole community feel happens.
One person cannot make a community. Sorry to be harsh but that’s a reality.
I hope you reconsider, and perhaps realise you have overreacted. You can’t have someone disagree with you and interpret that as being hated. It just doesn’t work like that. I don’t have much to add other than that, the rest of my opinions have been expressed above really.
Goodbye, but hopefully not for long/at all.
I’ll have to agree with why Vlad said. I used to feel so welcome[/I] here, but it’s changed. I’ll get on, and some of my good friends like Cram and Anim, but they just resume normal activity. When I finally say something or TP to them, that’s when they notice me. It used to be that I got on and I got 5 different greetings in less than a second.
you do realize that even when Staff are on, our ages range from 14-26. we have LIVES to attend to? we are not all 10 years old Fer. even when we are on, we are either socializing else where, and just keeping an eye on the server for issues, or we are doing HW, Studying for finals/tests… etc. we DO NOT atm have time for this crap. this is the hand-holding crap i was talking about in my post. if you feel unwelcome, and still wanna play MC, go to Single Player, im sure the Villagers there would LOVE to see you again. Otherwise, CHILLAX! be grateful you even HAVE this amazing server to get on and play.
Now, if you wanna talk about REAL WORLD problems, come talk to me. My parents left the STATE im living in. for Christmas, I SAT AT HOME BY MYSELF because i had no family to go visit. THAT is feeling unwelcome.
How about a couple a months before i was kicked outta my parents house, i was almost forced to kill my dad to defend myself? do you really wanna play this game with me? cause im not in the mood.
Basically, if you feel that you have been so unwelcomed, Leave. end this crap now and just leave, cause this is getting rediculous.
We do not need to one up eachother here. Stop. If you feel unwelcome then you can choose to leave or stay.
Before you put the blame on others put it on yourself, maybe you have been expressing your problems on other people without knowing it. Some people could also be afk and wouldn’t say hi because of that. You have to realize you are not the only person here, you are nice, but not everyone is going to be nice 100% of the time. No person automatically hates you unless YOU do something to cause that hate.
If this thread continues to go downhill I will lock and delete it. You then can create another thread where people can say more kind things to you instead of this nonsense.
Sorry mate, just trying to get the point across that his life isn’t as bad as he believes it is, nor is he special enough to warrant special privelages or modifications from others.
Fer, I understand that there are a select few on here that might be upsetting you, or making you feel unwanted; but im pretty sure that everybody on here has someone that they don’t like. Even I have 1 or 2 people in which I don’t enjoy thier company, but that doesn’t keep me from having a good time & make me leave. So maybe you could end the dispute you have with the “unnamed” people. It would be a shame to see a friend leave because of this.
~Best wishes ^-^
For everyone that says this server hasn’t been friendly lately, I honestly have no clue what you’re talking about. Everytime I get on I always see people welcoming new visitors, and saying hi to the regular players. I really do wish you reconsider leaving, I could help you feel wanted by giving you a house in the UN, or introduce you to friendly people. Either way best wishes from me.
hey fer don’t leave please most of us are like a family to have one leave is sad yes we might have fights and be really pissed off but still we are like family here i don’t want you to leave like many people have said before and we can’t force you to stay either so whatever you choose to do in the future choose well but plz stay i need someone to be friends with
Well I’m sure I won’t make a difference because I’m rarely on now a days, but I cannot stop you but I can hopefully change your mind. You said you were gonna be on classic. I’m assuming PCB classic. Ferfer, to be honest, whenever I see you get on, it’s for 1.5 seconds. After you leave my “hi fer” message gets across. I saw all the posts of…that…and we’ll I really don’t know my birth father or mother. (Adopted) but that’s beside the point. Fer if you could stay on the server for a bit longer than 1.5s, you may find most of the players are doing something and not paying attention to chat. Sometimes I don’t pay attention to chat if I’m thinking about something to build or if I’m afk. Fer, you are a great guy to be around and I’m sure a lot of the PCB members and staff feel the same way about you. If you ever need my help or need to contact me, you can do it via steam or respond to this saying “can I get your email.” I’ll pm it to you.
As I said before, I will miss seeing you around on the server when I get on.
I’m staying. I’ve been begged to much. The only thing I request is that I get the reespect I deserve. I’m 10. So what? I deserve as much respect as anyone else.
Too much drama in this thread.
I would like to say one thing. There is an aspect of psychology known as the Confirmation bias. It means that if you look for something, you Will find it. Thus if you spend your time trying to figure out if people dislike you, you will find dislike. Searching for unhappiness Causes unhappiness. I would suggest not thinking about the alleged problem and trying instead to just play in an open manner. If you search for friendship, you will find it.
Also, on the respect topic, I agree with Zesty. Although yes, everyone deserves to be treated decently, that does not warrant deserving everyone’s attention. Respect is earned proactively through your interactions with others.
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but plz stay i need someone to be friends with 